I have an 11-year-old daughter. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded. and he is giving me all the love……. So sad but I’ve overcome too much and come too far to let my heart suffer perpetually. You can’t speak for a true person who has a real attraction for older women if you grew up with and have it ingrained in your brain to stay in a”standard” age range. It can’t be better said then what you have just mentioned. 2. Lots of my gal friends lost interest in sex in their late 20s early 30s and needed fertility treatments then. So you're like, "Hey Jordan*, I'm having a bad day." Yeah you need the biology lesson DESPERATELY Katie. Mann. Getting married after I am done with my Bachelors in 2 years! If my guy had wanted a real relationship, I would have been all for it. Worry about yourself Evan, no one wants your sperm but your spouse, why are you concerned about other women’s ability to have children ?, obviously it can happen for women after 40 just like it did for you and your wife. Maybe don’t take the younger ones too seriously? He had a gf/wife and had a daughter with her but his feelings for me are growing stronger. These dudes come out of nowhere and you're left defenseless to their chiseled cheekbones. SIGMUND AND FREUD- “Interpretation of dreams” 1899. Didn’t trust him as I learned not to trust my ex-husband. I’m 42, the guy I have been spending time with is 24! Some of us are just healthier albeit rare. Hell, i am going to enjoy it as long as it lasts. If you are healthy strong and menstruating you are definitely fertile!
Ive been married 3 times before and I have 2 Second of all, we know you're on your damn phone because you just watched our Instagram story within five minutes of us posting it. and yes I have always dated younger men do to get that they are less likely to have been divorced or with children or have completely let them self go physically and I absolutely love their energy because they can keep up with my energy. Most have been 20-27. He was much more mature then my x that was 35 and any of the older men that tried to pursue me. I don’t know what will happen but what i fo know is men my age hurt me cheated and even hurt me physically. I started up a correspondence with him. Noooo thank you!! So..I’m 44 and I’m online dating again for the 2nd time…not second dating but second online. But he’s not. If both are of legal age, then age means nothing ! It just seems far more likely that a) he’s bragging to his friends that he might get to sleep with a woman 20 years older than himself, or b) you guys really might be compatible if only he were significantly older or you were significantly younger. I’m not looking for a relationship with neither one of the younger guys i communicate with,just having [email protected] Henderson. Personally? More and more people are choosing to get married and settle down later in life, leaving their 20s for casual encounters while focusing on careers. We have been doing well for the past couple of months or so. 65. by admin. Enough with inane mind reading. look at Halle Berry having a child at age 46 and Kelly Preston at age 49! But my romantic heart roots for you and a happily ever after. Embrace it together, be brave and strong is you both really love each other and who cares what people says. However, to the sincere men who’ve written in voicing their happiness in being with their mature lovers~no shame and point proven. I recently met someone who is 31, exceptionally smart, mature, arty, and everything I’ve been looking for in a man. I find that we are equals in what we both want and its an effortless relationship. My OB told me that fertility stats are for regular women, averages. Statistics are skewed. In the early 1990s, nearly three out of four 10th graders sometimes dated, but by the 2010s only about half did. We have a connection that cant be explained. he was so caring, sensitive, considerate, treated me with respect, was never worried about people… I loved that guy for decades…we broke up because of distance. I certainly wasn’t expecting mine to be a never-married, still-partying hearty guy in his early 30s; but he’s grown up a lot, and I’ve stayed open minded, and we get along like a house on fire. 6 years dating and 3 years of marriage so that’s not true. I worked with an OBGYN and we had patients that were close to 50 and still had a normal pregnancy. I have 7 kids and this year considered having an 8th I am nearly 48 and my OB sent me direct to a clinic to talk about egg donors. We’re still friends though, and if you don’t take it too seriously, that’s definitely a side advantage, I’d say we’re both rather protective of one another, and give each other good advice. California residents can opt out of "sales" of personal data. In his profile pic that with 3 guys and by chance I picked him out but I couldn’t remember exactly how we met or where we met for how long ago until he told me and then some it came back. This website uses cookies to improve your experience. Bist du es? Exactly. I have tthe fsh levels of a 25 year old. Cheers to all you loving people. It all depends on the person and level of maturity and expectations. So even if this young man’s interest in you is completely pure, even if he wants to have a real relationship with you, you guys are most likely doomed. It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website. While you’re reading STATISTICS life is passing you by. I have had 7 kids, never a problem getting pregnant, even at 47. There’s many worse things than being alone. Self care and ideas to help you live a healthier, happier life. I guess I’m not into wrinkles, beer bellies, bad teeth and someone who thinks my place is barefoot in the kitchen. The complete package. Not sure what the solution is for those of us in our 40s (I’m 48). It doesn't matter how great you are. Its annoying. Last thing I will ever want in this life is one more dumbass or dumbass relationship to take care of. When someone is in their 30s, they usually have their stuff figured out and are settling on big purchases. Women their own age are expecting them to be the man, the leader of the relationship, the decision maker. I was amazed at this. Sweet. Didn’t believe him. – they gave up on taking care of themselves…physically and/or As a fit, attractive, divorced plus 40 year old woman, absolutely the only guys who hit on me are in their 20’s. Thanks for your insight. box “undecided” would equate to checking an “okay with me if YOU have kids” box. So text us the fuck back. While this works for many people, there are many others who would prefer to start a long-term relationship while in their 20s. '> Thanks, Coug–, uh Carla. I’m 28. I am also in love and engaged to someone younger than me and sex isn’t our first concern, neither money. Shannon, I just want to say that when I was 28 I met a great man who thought the same way you do because he was 21 years older than me. I am in a relationship exactly like yours. And yet...the other day when you asked if you should call him your boyfriend he acted like you just asked him whether or not he was cool with the fact that you were about to give birth to seven babies right there at the dinner table. In December, he wanted to try having a full-blown, exclusive relationship. xoxo, I’m feeling u on that now,when the right one comes along age shouldn’t matter if its legal I never thought I would be saying this,but I’m falling for a 23 yr old and I’m in my mid forty’s… Wow!! Our eggs are not aging as fast as they used to before the 50s and 60s. Your 20s is the best time in your life to meet guys, so take advantage of this opportunity while you can. He would leave me alone for a couple of weeks and then contact me. I think one the biggest issues would be starting fresh. Point is, everyone has likes and dislikes ~fat, skinny, tall, short, etc. I dont think I could honestly live without him or my kids.